The following is information on
how to begin the consulting process, and what happens
in your session with Judy. First, to start the ball
rolling:
- Contact
me by E-mail, at Judy@EssentialhealingbyJudy.com
. to request a free 10 minute introductory consult.
In the E-mail it is helpful if you include a couple
of sentences describing yourself and your primary
concerns.
- If I think I might be able to
help you, we will set up the 10 minute free consultation.
At this time, you are free to ask any questions
you have, and we will schedule a session.
- Your next step is to fill out
an Assessment Form, which I will E-mail to you.
You will need to return the form to me 24 hours
prior to our scheduled session. By studying
the form, I can get some idea of what is going on
with you, and I make a list of flower essences that
can help you reach your goals.
As an example, imagine that you want
help with some type of social anxiety, and wish to overcome
your shyness. Shyness means different things
to different people, and can have many different aspects,
including:
- Anxiety, fear, nervousness, panic
- Low self esteem; lack of confidence
- Timidity; Lacking courage to
take risks
- Unable to be assertive
- Fear of failure
- Hypersensitivity - to group energy,
to sound, to environmental distractions
- Fear of criticism
- Overly critical and judgemental
of one's self
- Abuse/trauma issues from childhood
The good news
is that there are flower essences for all of these issues
- and much more!
AN
EXAMPLE OF OVERCOMING SHYNESS and STAGE FRIGHT WITH
FLOWER ESSENCES
"I have been a member of a choir
for a number of years, but always avoided trying out
for solo parts because of stage fright and shyness.
When I finally tried out and got a solo part, I was
very anxious about performing in front of an audience.
I found Judy's essence work with me to be extremely
effective in helping me to deal with my anxiety. I was
still somewhat nervous, but over a few weeks and two
essence sessions, the anxiety was turned down to a much
more manageable level. Not only was I able to perform
successfully, I have been delighted to see that the
change has been permanent. I am now able to try out
and perform with much less shyness. And even more important,
this has carried over into other areas of my life. Many
of my problems with shyness have permanently abated,
and I find not only did I conquer my stage fright and
shyness, I am generally a more out-going person and
able to take more risks." S.C., writer and choir
member
Your actual
consult takes place in person or over the phone. Here's
what happens:
- The
first thing I do in the session is ask more questions,
and then listen - very carefully, to what you have
to say. I want to make sure I understand what your
goals are, your feelings, and what factors are preventing
you from achieving your goals. I draw on my considerable
stores of professional training, and personal experience,
and together, we clarify your bottom-line issues.
- After that, I do more listening
- this time, to my source of higher Guidance and
wisdom. By using energetic testing
(kinesiology), my knowledge of the essences, and
other intuitive/spiritual techniques, I allow myself
to be guided to the essences that will best help
you solve your problem.
- For each essence I find, I give
you a detailed explanation of its function and what
to expect. The essences are all combined in one
bottle, and you are instructed how to use them.
If our session is by phone, your essences will be
sent to you via Priority Mail.
- In addition to the essences,
I may also provide coaching. I may, for example,
suggest different ways of viewing your problem and
offer you information on how to best support yourself
through your transitions. My primary goal is that
you finish our session feeling well-supported, encouraged,
and on your way to where you want to go.
Please note that your goals may take
more than one round of essences to be reached. Most
of us cannot deal with all of our issues at one time
- it would be too overwheming for our systems.
In the case of shyness or any kind
of social anxiety, for instance, your first essences
may address "surface" issues. These might
be symptoms like nervousness and panic, or tightening
of the throat. If you get only partial relief
from these essences, it would indicate that we need
to go to deeper, underlying issues, such as low self
esteem, or other more ingrained issues. You will energetically
reasonate with whatever flower essences will best
help you at the time, at whatever level you are ready
to deal with.
FEES
- My consultation fee is $95/hour.
This fee includes your flower essences. Shipping
is $3.85 (Priority Mail). . My fee is based on my
training, knowledge, experience and abilities -
as well as the time and energy I spend working with
you and putting your essences together.
- A typical first session (for
one person or animal) is one hour - sometimes more.
I cannot predict the exact length of the session,
since this depends on how long it takes me to find
your essences, how complex your situation is, and
how much we dialogue.
- In figuring your fee, I add in
10-15 minutes for the time it takes me to review
your Assessment form, and 10 more minutes for the
time it takes to prepare your essences for shipping.
- Subsequent sessions may be briefer,
and therefore cost less. This is because I
become increasingly familiar with your and your
pet's issues, so it's often easier to find the right
essences.
- I offer a free, five minute check-in
between sessions to test whether your current
formula is still good, or if you need other essences
and another session.
- The number of sessions needed
varies. It is possible to obtain meaningful results
with just a single round of essences. More commonly,
2-4 sessions will bring a particular issue to resolution.
And some people use my services on a regular basis
for counseling, coaching, and essences as appropriate,
to help keep them moving in the direction they want
to go.
- Reduced Fee: I reserve several
appointment times each month for those who sincerely
want to work with me, but need a reduced fee. Please
feel free to inquire.
FEE POLICIES
- Payment is made by personal check
or cashier's check only - credit cards are not accepted.
I trust my clients to send the assessed fee within
24 hours following a consult.
- I must receive your payment prior
to shipping your essences.
- Failure to send payment in a
timely manner will result in the termination of
our relationship and any responsibilities or obligations
on my part.
- I may determine that my work
is not suited to your needs. In this instance, we
would discuss why, and I would refer you someone
else, or to a different modality. This would most
likely occur during the initial 10minute phone call,
or as a result of my reading the Assessment Form
you fill out, but may also occur at any time during
our work together.
OTHER POLICIES
- Flower Essences may help support
recovery from physical problems, but they do not
replace the need for qualified medical diagnosis
and treatment of physical illnesses. If you have
a physical problem, please obtain the advice of
your medical doctor prior to contacting me.
- If you are suffering from serious
problems such as suicidal tendencies, substance-abuse,
addiction, etc., I may ask that you be in therapy
in addition to the work we do with flower essences.
- Many people and animals have
been helped by their work with me and the flower
essences . If you feel drawn to this work, there
is a good chance that you, too, may benefit. However,
there are never guarantees; no healing modality
is effective for everyone. For my part, I
don't want you to continue paying for sessions that
are not helpful. If you experience no positive results
within two-three sessions, I would urge you to pursue
other kinds of treatments. I will do my best to
suggest possible directions you might take.
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